Anda pasti sudah merasakannya, baik dalam lingkup besar ataupun kecil. Termyata membantu orang lain yang sangat membutuhkan pertolongan, akan memberi kepuasan tersendiri bagi kita. Ada suatu kebanggaan bahwa kita telah berhasil melakukannya.
Kepuasaan tersebut sifatnya langgeng, abadi, dan terus melekat. Padahal, kita kehilangan waktu, tenaga, dana, dan atau materi, bukan? Itulah misteri manusia yang sulit dijelaskan dengan nilai2 duniawi atau logika. Bahkan, tidak terjelaskan, dan hanya bisa dirasakan dan dialami sendiri. Kita dapat memberi penjelasan yang mendekati, yaitu dari pinggirannya, tidak terhadap intinya.
Macam2 bantuan luhur, bisa diberikan, misalnya urunan membeli gerobak untuk jual sayuran dalam mengentaskan seseorang terpuruk, atau memberi uang sekolah setiap bulan untuk anak suatu keluarga. Dapat juga berbentuk bukan materi, seperti mendampingi seorang yang putus asa kehilangan orang dekat atau terkena musibah kehilangan harta benda, dll.
Di bawah ini contoh kepedulian luar biasa dari pemuda dari Angkatan Laut yang oleh perawat disangka anak dari pasien yang menunggu saat2 terakhir hidupnya, dan dijalaninya demikian. Ternyata dia sebenarnya ke RS untuk memberitahukan seorang pasien bahwa anaknya, teman seperjuangan gugur. Tanpa tahu, bapak yang dia dampingi sepanjang malam sampai akhir hayat adalah yang dicarinya.
“This has to be what giving is all about.”
Just Stay. A nurse took the tired, anxious serviceman to the bedside. “Your son is here,” she said to the old man. She had to repeat the words several times before the patient’s eyes opened.
Heavily sedated because of the pain of his heart attack, he dimly saw the young uniformed Marine standing outside the oxygen tent. He reached out his hand. The Marine wrapped his toughened fingers around the old man’s limp ones, squeezing a message of love and encouragement.
The nurse brought a chair so that the Marine could sit beside the bed. All through the night the young Marine sat there in the poorly lighted ward, holding the old man’s hand and offering him words of love and strength. Occasionally, the nurse suggested that the Marine move away and rest awhile.
He refused. Whenever the nurse came into the ward, the Marine was oblivious of her and of the night noises of the hospital – the clanking of the oxygen tank, the laughter of the night staff members exchanging greetings, the cries and moans of the other patients. Now and then she heard him say a few gentle words. The dying man said nothing, only held tightly to his son all through the night.
Along towards dawn, the old man died. The Marine released the now lifeless hand he had been holding and went to tell the nurse. While she did what she had to do, he waited. Finally, she returned. She started to offer words of sympathy, but the Marine interrupted her.
“Who was that man?” he asked.
The nurse was startled, “He was your father,” she answered.
“No, he wasn’t,” the Marine replied.
“I never saw him before in my life.”
“Then why didn’t you say something when I took you to him?”
“I knew right away there had been a mistake, but I also knew he needed his son, and his son just wasn’t here.
When I realized that he was too sick to tell whether or not I was his son, knowing how much he needed me, I stayed.” I came here tonight to find a Mr. William Grey. His son was Killed in Iraq today, and I was sent to inform him. What was this Gentleman’s Name?
The Nurse with Tears in Her Eyes Answered, Mr. William Grey…
The next time someone needs you … just be there. Stay.
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WE ARE NOT HUMAN BEINGS GOING THROUGH A TEMPORARY SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCE.
WE ARE SPIRITUAL BEINGS GOING THROUGH A TEMPORARY HUMAN EXPERIENCE. (love this line)
PLEASE PASS THIS ONE ON AND GOD WILL BLESS YOU!
THIS IS WHAT WE ARE PUT ON THIS EARTH TO DO ANYWAY.
RIGHT ?
HAVE A GREAT DAY AND BLESS SOMEONE ELSE IN SOME LITTLE WAY TODAY!
GOD IS SO GOOD. (AphD; http://bandung19.or.id/pipermail/scouting_bandung19.or.id/2015-June/005545.html)-FR